in reply to BurtReynolds

That's the right mentality to have there. Do what you can where you can.

I ran into an amazing character creator and animator recently and loved what I saw. I shared it with some friends and they pointed out the person is a complete CHUD. I now blacklist their stuff, as simple viewership of their media gives demand for it.

in reply to Hideakikarate

Guilt-free is impossible if you pay for it. Pirating though, you can draw the line yourself. Like for example Harry Porter the movie is a combination of multiple talented people, i don't attribute all those to a single cunt, and pirating mean i can avoid paying that cunt while also acknowledging the talent that contributed to this whole series(by watching their other works, but i'm also a massive cunt as i pirate everything and not paying streaming service a single cent)

Don't really like the series anyway, the setting is pretty nice though. Will still avoid media from people who crossed that line though.

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in reply to Hideakikarate
Perfection is impossible, you'll never know someone is like that until they get vocal about it. But for actual Nazis and their sympathizers, I do what I can to not give them attention or money. It's like ethical consumption under capitalism, it's impossible to be 100%. Just do better when it's obvious.
in reply to Doc_Crankenstein
in reply to Skullgrid
That those people then funnel money into organizations that are anti-LGBTIA+ as well should be a very good reason to not buy their crap. Initially with Rowling we didn't know she was such a POS, but now that we do, I no longer consume her media willingly. I wouldn't even say pirate it, as it still creates an obvious demand for it.
in reply to Hanrahan
Money going to people like that is then funneled into culture war bullshit. Rowling as an example is personally help fund many anti-trans pieces of legislation. There is not ethical consumption with Nazis/Reactionaries involved. If you can't be assed to not pay for media that funds such actions then I personally so little difference between you and the creator.
in reply to KoalaUnknown

Sorta related, but I was trying to remember a song the other day where a guy is proposing to a woman. I eventually realized it was "On My Way" (2012) by Passion Pit. So I decided to go to wikipedia to see if it was based on real events, and it was. But then the story goes wonky.

Michael Angelakos wrote the song to propose to his then girlfriend Kristy Mucci. But while engaged to Mucci, he started also dating Madeleine Dubus. He became a drunk and drug addict and was abusive towards Mucci and Dubus. He still married Mucci in 2013, but they announced they were divorcing in 2015. Later that year, Angelakos announced he was gay. In 2018, he came out as bisexual.

In 2025, he said he took too many shrooms and wrote a long email to Dubus that prompted a wellness check on him. Months later, he married Dubus and she became his manager. That same year, he wrote a series of essays, much of which were about his inability to clean up after himself at home and the problems that causes. He also described "snorting a billion grams of ketamine."

Anyway, it kinda takes the song down a notch for me.

in reply to KoalaUnknown

Crazy idea, I know, but you can just enjoy shit regardless.

For all I know the engineer who designed my car's breaks was a pedo, but that doesn't mean I am going to stop driving my car.

I don't understand this weirdo notion of 'purity' implicit in these types of beliefs. But guilt by association is not a thing I believe in.

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in reply to TubularTittyFrog

Some people are just too focused on others with no sense of observation on themselves.

In terms of the 'weirdos' who do this, they seem to be majorly concentrated within Lemmy.global. So it isnt the "whole" of Lemmy but more like a louder portion of it.

Also, these kinds of "controversial" stuff just brings the wrong kind of people - those which twist narratives, and spread hypocrisy. But as I said, I only encountered this in global.

in reply to cosmos8188

i don't know what that instance is. i mostly block .ml and a few other instances because that's where the majority of weirdos come from, and they view everything from a extremist lens and would call you a Nazi for having the wrong type of bowel movement. But definately there are people who use certain instances because they are 100% ID politics believers and think nobody can exist without every thing they do being inherently part of their political identity. The concept of politics being a single aspect of life among many doesn't exist for these folks and they refuse to accept any notion of plurality of belief and life.

that said i find this community and a few others, to be less full of insane weirdos than most. people here seem to take shit less seriously and be more thoughtful, weirdly enough.

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